It's Not Always Dildos and Roses...
Like most married couples, we sometimes get out of synch. We're well past full blown arguments but still, tense disagreements can occur. This is especially true when you're engaged in this kind of dynamic. There is a lot of emotion involved and it can be a complex situation. It's very important to remember that you're both human beings. Your relationship must come first. Power Exchange is just a facet of the foundational relationship that must already be there. You both have desires, wants, needs, insecurities, strengths, and weaknesses. Each of you wants to feel loved and to give love. You want to feel needed and to make the other person feel needed. You both want to be happy. I think ignoring all of that under the umbrella of power exchange is a terrible idea. Sure the first few months that you start exploring a PE relationship can be super fun and thrilling and even blissful. But when the shiny starts to wear off and t...