Top 10 Hits!

 Recently, Mistress instructed me to compile a list of my favorite things to engage in and put them in order of preference.  A few things didn't need to be on the list as they have become standards such as orgasm control, panty wearing, and toenail painting.

This was actually hard as I could make a pretty big list but more so, trying to put them in order was really taxing.  After the first three, the margins of separation are very slim and can be totally dependent on mood and application at the time. 

At the time of instruction, I wasn't given any reason for the list, just that I was to create it.

Here's what I handed in...

  1. Participate in you achieving orgasm.
  2. Watching you achieve orgasm.
  3. Strap on and other dildo play (receiving).
  4. Showering and drying me.
  5. Paddle, spanking, etc.
  6. Psychological play (mindfucks, games, etc.)
  7. CBT play
  8. Skin play (scratching, Wartenberg wheel, etc.)
  9. Humiliation play
  10. Bondage
I still don't know specifics but I suspect the list serves a couple purposes.  It helps educate Mistress on what I like, just to give her some more frame of reference.  But it also helps her decide rewards and punishments and I think this is probably the biggest motivator.

It was a fun exercise just to have to really think about it like that.  😊

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