Back Into Submission...

 My wife and I have been married for 37 years.  Intimacy has never been an issue with us and we've had a fulfilling and sometimes adventurous sex life with me being the much more openly kink oriented.  But that not to say in anyway she has ever been prudish and she has nearly always embraced both her and mine desires, even the kinky ones.  To that end, several years ago, maybe as many twenty now, we began to dabble in BDSM or D/s.

She assumed the Dominant role and I the submissive one.  Despite my outward very Alpha male personality, this role suited me very well and I relished the relinquishing of control.  Likewise, she quite naturally embraces the Dominant side.  I don't remember how long we engaged in these activities but for myriad reasons, it eventually stopped and more or less remained just a memory for all these years.

That was until a few weeks ago.  During a particularly hot intimacy session my wife was being quite aggressive and also engaging in some very naughty talk, and encouraging me to do the same.  The fire was ignited and within days we were having serious, sober discussions about delving headlong back into this and this time with even more intensity.  The truth is, I wasn't really ready before.  I fought the bit and often couldn't even identify as a sub bit rather a switch.  But we're such different people now in so many ways.  Older, more mature, more confident, ready...

We also discussed that we're certainly not getting any younger and time is truly a precious gift these days so the intensity has amped up considerably.  This is no longer just a sex-focused activity.  We're weaving it into our daily lives.

We're empty nesters now so that helps for sure.

And so it has begun and these past few weeks have been beautiful.

I'll make some separate posts about some specific experiences but suffice to say, my wife, heretofore, Domme T, has really embraced things.